I was in my early 30's before I realized that I have telepathic abilities. It took several more years to recognize and learn to consciously use my various other gifts — i.e. clairsentience, clairvoyance, claircognizance and empath abilities.

I had realized much earlier — in my early 20's — that my life mission had something to do with sexuality, healing sexual wounds, coming into one's body, owning one's sexual energy, balancing the energies of sex and love, and helping others with the same. My inquiries into sex and sexuality have been not just personal but academic, sociological, political and eventually professional.

So once I started working as a psychic, it was natural for me to combine spirituality and sexuality. My callers ask questions about their desires, relationships, sexual paths, and what their unconscious holds in the shadows of their dark side.

I used to also do phone sex, if requested, but after a year I burned out on it. I now focus on sexual psychic readings. I also answer questions on relationships and all other topics.

When you ask a question, I “forward” it to the realm of Spirit, and convey whatever information Spirit sends. The answers go beyond my own learning. They might provide the missing pieces that have prevented you from developing healthy relationships, or give ideas for how you can help your partner heal from his or her sexual “hangups” so that the two of you can enjoy more quality time.

As long as I am in direct contact with Spirit, what I say is not coming from me. During readings I strive to be aware of the separation between Spirit and my own (limited) mind. Spirit probably does not communicate information too far beyond my own ability to understand — it has to work within the abilities of the vessel seeking it (i.e. me). But what I offer while I am in this "Spirit space" or "psychic time" is deeper and truer to your life's purpose than what I offer as an individual ego/consciousness/person.

During my training in Taoist meditation, chi kung and tantra over several years in my 30's, I learned to circulate sexual energy through my body at will, in ways that liberate sexual feelings and balance the overall life force. The emergence of my psychic abilities resulted from this body-based spiritual training. To Taoists in the tradition I studied, Sex and Spirit are complimentary. Getting "juiced up" is a natural outcome of moving energy through the body. Consistently directing energy leads to spiritual advancement, including the ability to quiet the mind.

Sex and Spirit meet in the Body. That’s why many people say the Body is sacred. That’s why Jesus called our bodies our temple. That’s why focusing on sex and desire while doing psychic readings is spiritual work for me.

I am not saying that all sex is sacred. But it can be sacred, just as it can be a primary means of communication between two or more people.

We are all on journeys to live with greater awareness of Spirit. As the Sexual Psychic, I provide you with information and insights into your unique sexual development and spiritual growth.